Tweet In deciding to review past resolutions, intentions or goals, means we are continuously willing to keep moving forward and challenge ourselves to be positive. We are determined to overcome whatever issue that we would like to resolve. If overeating, smoking, drinking, excess internet gaming, etc. are issues that you would like to really overcome, you need to decide for yourself that you would like to be DONE with holding onto these habits. In order to achieve our goals, we have to be willing to examine our thinking, and correct what we are holding in mind. Most people that …
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A good number of people believe that if they do everything right that will help them be happy. While others believe no matter what they do or don’t do, that they may never really have total happiness. Some people believe they must accomplish things like having a good education, living and working in the right communities, having enjoyable relationships with family and friends. Other folks believe that by eating the right foods will help them be healthier and therefore they will also be offered a higher level of happiness.
Tweet One of the most powerful questions a person can ask themselves (which I’d like to share with you) is this: What is it COSTING YOU to remain in the life you’re currently living? Think about that for a moment. What is it you are currently doing (or not doing) in your life that you would like to change? And then ask yourself what it’s costing you NOT to change that. What is it costing you financially? But “cost” doesn’t just mean a financial cost. In other words: What is your current lifestyle costing you in missed opportunities? What is …
If you’re expecting good things most of the time, please stop right in this moment and give yourself a pat on the back! Bravo to you! Realistically we should all be expecting good things at all times. Truth appears that most times, most folks tend to expect somewhat unfortunate outcomes. Think about this for a moment… Perhaps you have used phrases such as, “Too expensive… too good to be true… I can’t… I don’t know how… and the list goes on and on. Without realizing, these limiting statements are actually projecting what we are holding in mind. In other words, limited statements become a way of life. Whatever we are holding in mind, is what we are creating. Whatever we are focused on (good or bad) will materialize at some time. So therefore it is immensely helpful to begin to see what we are holding in mind and constructively decide to change our limiting points of view.
Here are a few considerations to help you more clearly see what you may be holding in mind. Sometimes we may be playing, “Fake it – till you make it…” If we are concentrating on faking something or not believing things will change, that is what we will create or continue to maintain. On a subconscious level, this indicates that our thoughts are actually focused on doubt. Doubt is a very stuck place because it is in the realm of fear. Doubt is also exemplifying “I can’t or I won’t!”
Let’s switch our thought processes towards positive and begin focusing on “Making it!” When we are determined to succeed and achieve our goal(s), we are declaring that no one or no-thing can stop us. In believing things can work out is also helping us to find a way to make our dreams a reality. By strongly deciding to have or experience something will naturally carve out a path that previously didn’t exist. The more we fuel our goals with positive thoughts, the quicker our goal will come into existence.
Often the moment we decide, “Enough” is when things start to change. Making better decisions equals less stress. Making better decisions also includes a willingness to work along with others that are available and willing to help or offer guidance. Aligning ourselves and our projects in a positive manner is also expecting things will work out well more often. This approach is also creating more confidence. Confidence creates a sense of being in-control, feeling safe, and believing we are worthy to have good things and good outcomes. Expecting to have and experience good things is also about being flexible and willing to receive abundance and prosperity in an easy, straightforward manner.
By choosing to focus on having enjoyable and pleasant interactions with others, is holding ourselves accountable to creating more opportunities that are both pleasant and also enjoyable. Deciding to be “Healthy, Wealthy, and Wise!” certainly would benefit everyone. More good news is that these choices are available to everyone. Just by changing our attitude from limited or negative, to possible and optimistic is surely a better approach in aligning ourselves in what we would really like to experience. Anytime we make better choices, and consistently hold in mind good things, is allowing us to begin to experience better results. We could all begin holding in mind better choices. Choices such as, “All is well! Life is good! Everything is really well! If we are expecting better outcomes, it is simply because we are challenging ourselves to have a better life.
Practice being positive more often and observe your own thoughts. If thoughts appear limiting, do see this as an opportunity to make a better choice. Step up into higher energies such as courageousness, acceptance or peace. Be willing to let go of the fear and try something new. If you find you are stuck, ask yourself better questions. Simply by refocusing on things being easy or that help is readily available, will shift us from being frustrated to feeling empowered. Everything can be viewed positively – meaning there is a silver lining in each situation. Hold in mind positive intentions throughout your day. Expect things will continue to move forward peacefully. Celebrate your successes even if they are simply acknowledging that all is well.
Tweet “I was looking for love in all the wrong places. Looking for love in too many faces. Searching your eyes, looking for traces, of what… I’m dreaming of… Hopin’ to find a friend and a lover, God bless the day I discover, another heart, lookin’ for love…” You probably recognize the words from the Waylon Jennings song. Isn’t that how many of us in this world spend our entire life? Looking for love in too many faces. We are looking for love exactly where it is not, out there. Maybe when we lay in that crib with …