Archive for September, 2012

In Control – Out of Control

Tweet Are you in control?  Well let’s see…  Are you trying to figure out what to do regarding bills, relationships, security, or something else?  Are you irritable?  Are you at your perfect weight?  Are you in good health?  Are you frustrated in some way?  Are you sleeping peacefully at night?  If you aren’t in good health, at your perfect weight, or sleeping peacefully, these are indications that you may be are out of control. Being out of control, about anything, interferes with our ability to be at peace; to be healthy; and to have healthy relationships.  Ask yourself, “Does it …

Disagreeing with others

Tweet Do you ever find yourself disagreeing with others?  Or maybe you find yourself disagreeing with yourself?  Perhaps you’ll agree that disagreement is pretty much an indication that we are very much in non-agreement or strongly dislike of something in its current reality.  It is also saying that on some level, we may think that others should change or refrain from acting or thinking as they are currently demonstrating.  It is important for us to remember, that if we find situations offensive or confrontational, it is an opportunity for us to examine our thinking and begin changing what we are …

Transforming Childhood

Tweet The details related to our childhood, and things that we’ve experienced in the past, are still very much running in our subconscious minds.  Our childhood memories are affecting how we are living our lives today.  As children, we may have fallen out of the bed or down a flight of stairs. Or perhaps we fell off our bicycle or fell off the jungle-gym.  For most of us, skinned knees and bruised elbows were things we managed to get through. The physical wound quickly healed although our judgments related to these past incidents remain long after these occurrences took place.  …

Having Successful Relationships

Tweet Our emotions and wants in regards to our relationships are indications that we are often not in control.  Furthermore, the “I can’t and I won’t” thoughts that are playing in the background keeps us from taking positive action.  Each “I can’t or I won’t” thought is actually a limitation.  These limiting thoughts are the primary factors keeping us in unhealthy relationships.  Many of us are stuck in fear.  The fear causes us to repeat the same unhealthy patterns, over and over again.  The results are often our being even more out of control because we don’t know how to …